Popular Nollywood actor, Kenneth Okonkwo has taken to social media to reveal why it is not ideal to threaten your partner with break up when one is angry or upset unless you mean it.
The veteran thespian who shared his thoughts in a post on social media said that it is better for one to focus his or her anger on what his or her partner has done without bringing up the threat of a break up.
According to Kenneth Okonkwo, the key to a lasting relationship is being with someone you can actually communicate your feelings to from time to time and have a solutions-based approach towards conversations.
He wrote thus on social media; ”No matter how upset you are, don’t threaten your partner with a break up unless you mean it. Focus your anger on what they’ve done without bringing up the threat of a break up. No relationship is without its ups and downs. Don’t let anyone deceive you.
‘‘You will quarrel and you will fight. You will have sad days; you will disagree some days and not find a common ground over some issues. Compromises don’t always happen. These are normal things in a healthy relationship.
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‘‘The key to a lasting relationship is being with someone you can actually communicate your feelings to and have a solutions-based approach towards conversations; someone who doesn’t just communicate, but reciprocates the energy you give to them. Someone who always bares their mind and accumulates pent-up anger.
‘‘Someone who forgives easily and reverts to their default factory mode of playing and laughing. This is the key. Good morning beloved fans,” Kenneth Okonkwo added.
